[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/smirit-se-s-tim-ze-nemuzete-mit-deti-neni-snadne-najdete-si-jiny-zivotni-cil-a-zamestnejte-se\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/smirit-se-s-tim-ze-nemuzete-mit-deti-neni-snadne-najdete-si-jiny-zivotni-cil-a-zamestnejte-se\/","headline":"Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt d\u011bti nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9 – Najd\u011bte si jin\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed c\u00edl a zam\u011bstnejte se!","name":"Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt d\u011bti nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9 – Najd\u011bte si jin\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed c\u00edl a zam\u011bstnejte se!","description":"V\u0161ichni se ptaj\u00ed, kdy budete m\u00edt kone\u010dn\u011b miminko a vy jen t\u011b\u017eko hled\u00e1te slova, kter\u00fdmi byste odpov\u011bd\u011bla? Jak se sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u011bti m\u00edt nebudete?\u00a0 Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt d\u011bti nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9 \u2013 Najd\u011bte si jin\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed c\u00edl a zam\u011bstnejte se!\u00a0 Jako by to byla povinnost, jako by \u017eena byla na […]","datePublished":"2024-10-23","dateModified":"2024-10-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c61c2d82e330ff9c70cf023b4c62d411e8407bcb38f85df591fa270717754b44?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c61c2d82e330ff9c70cf023b4c62d411e8407bcb38f85df591fa270717754b44?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sombra.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/person-409127_640_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/person-409127_640_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/smirit-se-s-tim-ze-nemuzete-mit-deti-neni-snadne-najdete-si-jiny-zivotni-cil-a-zamestnejte-se\/","about":["\u017dena"],"wordCount":554,"articleBody":"V\u0161ichni se ptaj\u00ed, kdy budete m\u00edt kone\u010dn\u011b miminko a vy jen t\u011b\u017eko hled\u00e1te slova, kter\u00fdmi byste odpov\u011bd\u011bla? Jak se sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u011bti m\u00edt nebudete?\u00a0Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt d\u011bti nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9 \u2013 Najd\u011bte si jin\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed c\u00edl a zam\u011bstnejte se!\u00a0Jako by to byla povinnost, jako by \u017eena byla na sv\u011bte jen proto, aby rodila d\u011bti. I kdy\u017e dnes u\u017e na to nen\u00ed kladen takov\u00fd d\u016fraz jako kdysi, st\u00e1le se \u017eeny ve st\u0159edn\u00edm v\u011bku, kter\u00e9 je\u0161t\u011b matkami nejsou, mus\u00ed pot\u00fdkat s ot\u00e1zkami okol\u00ed na to, kdy kone\u010dn\u011b p\u0159ijde potomek. Jsou \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 se dobrovoln\u011b rozhodly d\u011bti nem\u00edt, pak jsou tu ale ty, kter\u00e9 je m\u00edt nemohou a je pro n\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 o tom mluvit. \u0158ada \u017een se toti\u017e nem\u016f\u017ee jen tak sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee si nikdy neporod\u00ed vlastn\u00edho potomka. A i kdy\u017e medic\u00edna pokro\u010dila a v n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech jsou mo\u017en\u00e9 skoro a\u017e z\u00e1zraky, ne v\u017edycky to jde. Lze se ale v\u016fbec sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b m\u00edt nebudete, i kdy\u017e opravdu moc chcete?\u00a0Nejde to, co te\u010f?\u00a0Jestli\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b m\u00edt nem\u016f\u017eete a nelze to opravdu \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, a\u0165 u\u017e z jak\u00fdchkoliv d\u016fvod\u016f, je velmi t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 se s t\u00edm sm\u00ed\u0159it vnit\u0159n\u011b, nato\u017e pak odpov\u00eddat na neust\u00e1l\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky okol\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, jako prvn\u00ed se nab\u00edz\u00ed adopce \u010di p\u011bstounsk\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de, jen\u017ee ani tyto mo\u017enosti nejsou snadno provediteln\u00e9, nav\u00edc to, \u017ee p\u0159ijmete za sv\u00e9 ciz\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, v\u00e1s nutn\u011b nemus\u00ed ud\u011blat opravdu \u0161\u0165astnou. Souhlasit nav\u00edc mus\u00ed i partner, cesta k osvojen\u00ed ciz\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte je nav\u00edc dlouh\u00e1 a klikat\u00e1. N\u011bkdy je samotn\u00fd proces mnohem n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e se m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t a vlastn\u011b ani tak to nemus\u00ed dopadnout \u00fapln\u011b podle p\u0159edstav. \u010clov\u011bk ale m\u016f\u017ee \u017e\u00edt i d\u00e1l docela \u0161\u0165astn\u011b a spokojen\u011b.\u00a0Co s \u017eivotem a jak naj\u00edt nov\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed c\u00edl?\u00a0\u017deny se \u010dasto na p\u0159edstavu o vlastn\u00edm d\u00edt\u011bti hodn\u011b upnou. Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee to nejde, nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9. Siln\u00e1 \u017eena ale m\u016f\u017ee naj\u00edt smysl \u017eivota v n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m. Obvykle v n\u011bjak\u00e9 form\u011b pomoci jin\u00fdm. Pomoci ale zprvu m\u016f\u017ee hodn\u011b psycholog \u010di terapeut. Nen\u00ed ostuda vyhledat podobnou formu pomoci. Svou roli by m\u011bl sehr\u00e1t i partner jako\u017eto nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed opora. Pokud opravdu m\u00edt d\u011bti nem\u016f\u017eete, je dobr\u00e9 o tom mluvit, zkusit probrat v\u0161echno, co v\u00e1s t\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a v\u0161echny mo\u017enosti. Je t\u0159eba si ale naj\u00edt i n\u011bco, co v\u00e1s opravdu zam\u011bstn\u00e1, a nav\u00edc bude i napl\u0148ovat. A zp\u016fsob\u016f je hodn\u011b. \u017divot m\u016f\u017eete zasv\u011btit pomoci druh\u00fdm, m\u016f\u017eete si po\u0159\u00eddit zv\u00ed\u0159e, kter\u00e9mu d\u00e1te l\u00e1sku nebo si najdete kon\u00ed\u010dek. Zkuste t\u0159eba i cestov\u00e1n\u00ed. Zkr\u00e1tka napl\u0148te sv\u016fj \u017eivot jinak.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.4\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt d\u011bti nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9 – Najd\u011bte si jin\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed c\u00edl a zam\u011bstnejte se!","item":"https:\/\/www.sombra.cz\/smirit-se-s-tim-ze-nemuzete-mit-deti-neni-snadne-najdete-si-jiny-zivotni-cil-a-zamestnejte-se\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]